Whenever I heard the word “heartbreak” I always thought it was a thing that happens suddenly, a thing that happens after a certain situation or conversation.
Well, it could happen this way. But let me tell you, as bad as it may seem, this is not the worst way to get your heart broken.
Heartbreak could happen over a period of time. One situation, then another, then another. Every situation of them just breaks a tiny bit of your heart which is too small to notice. You think everything is perfect later on, but the fact remains that the broken part is still broken. The next situation breaks another tiny part, but you still don’t feel it. This happens over and over until you finally find that a large part of your heart has gone. You feel heartbroken and you get so angry at yourself for letting this get to you.
Nobody really understands because if you let all the tiny heartbreaks pass then why are you stopping now?
Nobody gets the point that all the tiny pieces are gone and now you have nothing left for them to break. It may happen over days, months or even years but once it happens, they can never fix it.
When you decide to break someone’s heart, make sure you don’t step on all the broken pieces. If you want to do damage, then at least do one that you can repair.
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